Rabies Day, a Settled Diet, and Travel Jitters: A Stanley Update

Rabies vaccines, picky tummies, and travel jitters — Stanley managed to hit all three this week.

Puck in a Box!

 

Today was rabies day for my sensitive little guy. Because he’s had vaccine reactions in the past, I asked the vet to do only rabies at this visit, nothing combined and nothing extra. We did his Bordetella/kennel cough last week as a stand-alone, and that one went totally smoothly, which makes me feel a tiny bit braver about the whole vaccine thing. I’m hoping that once we make it through a full year of vaccines with him, I’ll have a better sense of what his body can handle and I’ll feel a little safer each time we walk into the clinic.

Stanley doesn’t want to get up!

Next month, we’ll go back for his distemper combo, again as its own visit. Then June is the big mental hurdle: leptospirosis and Lyme, which is when he had a reaction before. I’m already thinking about how to handle that. A lot of vets consider lepto and Lyme “lifestyle” vaccines and will space them way out or even skip one if the dog’s reaction risk seems higher than their disease risk, especially in small dogs or dogs with a history of vaccine sensitivity. Some clinics will pre-medicate with an antihistamine, keep the dog for a longer observation period, and never give more than one higher-risk shot in a day — all things I’ll be talking through with my vet before we get anywhere near June. For now, I’m keeping my expectations simple: one vaccine at a time, lots of notes about how he does, and no heroics.

Really not ready for Morning

Other than the boring vaccine update, the check-up itself went really well. Stanley’s weight looks good, and his current diet got a thumbs-up. That feels like a minor miracle after how much I’ve tinkered with his food over the past few months. I’ve tried so many different foods with him that I finally hit my limit: I’m done with the experiments. His main food is going to stay Hill’s Science Diet dry for small dogs with sensitive stomachs, with a tablespoon of Happy Howl mixed in for flavor. That’s it. No more “maybe this new thing will be perfect” impulse buys, at least not for a good long while.

Perfect Puck

Because he’s a small dog with a touchy tummy, I really have to watch quantities so he doesn’t end up gassy or with loose poop again. I’m also trying to be more honest with myself about treats. He still gets no table food — other than the very rare bits of American cheese when I absolutely have to get a pill into him — and the rest of his “extras” are pretty boring on purpose. Treats right now are either his regular kibble, some dry chicken bites that I buy, or occasional chicken jerky. It doesn’t sound exciting, but for him, consistent and predictable works better than a constant parade of novelty.

On top of the health stuff, I’m in trip-prep mode and starting to feel that familiar little knot in my stomach about leaving all the pets. I’m very happy with my new house pet sitter and really like her energy; I think (and hope) she’s going to be great with the whole crew. Still, leaving Stanley is the part that makes me pause. I love his kennel and the people there, but eight days is a lot for a little dog who’s so attached to his routine and his people.

The Beautiful Hector

To make it easier on him (and me), I’ll be sending him with all the comforts of home: his own food, his blankets, his bed, and a favorite toy. It’s my way of saying, “This is different, but you’re still safe, and you’re still you.” Between the careful vaccine schedule, the now-boring but steady diet, and a sitter and kennel I trust, I feel like I’m slowly building a safety net around this sensitive, silly little dog — one vet visit and one small decision at a time.


Quick Vaccine Tips for Sensitive Dogs

  • Ask for one vaccine per visit. Spacing vaccines out makes it easier to spot which one caused a problem and is often easier on sensitive dogs.
  • Talk to your vet about pre-medication. For dogs with a history of reactions, some vets use an antihistamine (and sometimes a short-acting steroid) before the shot and monitor the dog longer afterward.
  • Schedule vaccines when you can watch them. Book appointments for times when you can keep an eye on your dog for the rest of the day, and know where your nearest emergency vet is just in case.
  • Keep clear records. Write down which vaccine was given, the brand, and any reaction you see (even mild ones like extra sleepiness), so you and your vet can make better decisions over time.
  • Remember that some vaccines are lifestyle-based. Core vaccines (like rabies and distemper) are generally recommended for all dogs, but others (like leptospirosis and Lyme) depend on your dog’s lifestyle and local risk, and may be spaced out or skipped in some sensitive dogs.

Have you ever had to deal with vaccine or other sensitivities with your Pup? Let me know, leave me a comment.

Stanley’s Agility Joy (And a Few Training Bumps)

New Logo! What do you think?


Stanley and I have been trying a little bit of everything lately: manners and obedience, some scent work, and now agility. Agility is, by far, the clear favorite. He lights up as soon as we pull into the parking lot, and even though he’s still distracted and wiggly, we can now get through a small course off leash.

We technically finished this round of classes last night. There is one more class on the schedule, but we’ll have to miss it because I’ll be traveling. I’m already counting the days until we can start again at the end of April.

Yawn!


What Stanley Loves (And Doesn’t) On Course
Stanley has strong opinions about obstacles. Tunnels are pure joy — he charges through them with his tail up like he’s on a mission. The balance board? Not his favorite, but he’ll tolerate it if there are good cookies involved.

Last night, for the first time, he decided he really did not like the A‑frame. He slipped a couple of times on the way down, and I’m pretty sure his slightly-long claws aren’t helping with traction. He has a vet appointment on Monday, so I’ll make sure we get those nails trimmed and then reintroduce the A‑frame slowly, with lots of encouragement.

Enjoying the Fire Place


The Zoomies Heard ’Round the Ring
The best moment from class last night might be one I wish I had on video. We were practicing having the dogs stay while handlers moved ahead to start the course. Stanley’s version of this was… creative.

He tried so hard to stay with me, and after a few attempts, he just couldn’t contain himself. He got the zoomies, took off, and started sprinting the perimeter of the room. He greeted every dog, did a few jumps, dove into the tunnel, and then did more jumps on his own. He was absolutely thrilled with himself.

Everyone in class was laughing, and of course he soaked up the attention. It was one of those moments where training and pure joy collide, and even though it wasn’t what we were supposed to be doing, it reminded me why I love this sport with him.

In the meantime, we’ll be focusing on some basic manners before the next session starts: staying, waiting, and learning that sometimes we watch quietly instead of doing all the things all at once!

Bedtime!


Big Plans: A Local Agility Club
To keep the momentum going, I’ve applied to join a local agility club, and I’m super excited about it. My current instructor is on the board and says it’s a great group of people. They get together at different locations to practice and even go to competitions together.

I love the idea of being around more like‑minded dog people and having a community that understands why we get so excited about tunnels and weave poles. I’m really looking forward to meeting new friends — for both me and Stanley.

Sleepy Puck!



Real Life At Home: Crates, Poops, and Other Pets
Outside of class, Stanley is still very much a work in progress. The good news is that he almost never has accidents in the house anymore. The not‑so‑good news is that he still sometimes poops in his crate. It’s become one of those habits I’m not sure I’ll ever completely break, but we’re not giving up yet. Maybe once the weather gets less frigid?

I’m also really looking forward to some warm weather and being able to work with him outside. A little sunshine, more space, and fewer winter distractions will be good for both of us.

The rest of the crew is doing well. Hector is her cranky old self, happily destroying new toys and methodically deconstructing any cardboard box that dares to enter the house. Lizard had a lovely soak in the sink today, and the cats were very entertained watching the whole process.

Warming the Belly by the Fire


So that’s where we are right now: a small dog who thinks tunnels are the best thing ever, a human trying to remember that progress is never a straight line, and a house full of pets keeping life interesting while we wait for spring.

How I Accidentally Made My Dog a Picky Eater (And Upset His Tummy)

Last night I was up way too late thinking about my little Stanley and his tummy. I kept coming back to the same picture: a gassy, slightly picky small dog who strains a bit at the end of his poop and often leaves a little smear of diarrhea. It’s never seemed like a full-blown medical crisis, so I didn’t worry too much. But now that I’m deep in “fix the diet” mode, all the pieces are starting to come together.

And unfortunately, the common denominator is me.

The Perfect Storm: Great Intentions, Sensitive Tummy

From the day I brought Stanley home, I’ve been on a mission to find the “best” food for him. That meant trying different kibbles, different “fresh” foods, different formulas, and searching for the magic combination that would check every box. On top of that, Stanley isn’t just a couch potato. We train. A lot.

We’re in classes almost every week, and at home we do:
– Obedience
– Agility
– Nose work

It’s wonderful for his brain and our relationship, but there’s a side effect: training equals treats. Lots of them.

With a small dog, those treats add up very quickly, and I think that’s where things really started to go sideways. Too much variety, too many extras, and too many changes have probably been overwhelming his tiny tummy.

How I (Accidentally) Created a Picky Eater

Here’s what I’ve realized about our routine:

– I’ve changed his food several times trying to find “the one.”
– I’ve been very generous with treats during training, often not accounting for how small he really is.
– I’ve given him lots of options and variety with the best intentions.

What happens when you constantly rotate foods and also hand out a steady stream of treats? The main meals start to look a lot less exciting. For a little 11 lb dog, a handful of training treats can be like a second meal in disguise.

I’m starting to believe that I’ve actually taught Stanley to be picky. Why eat your boring, balanced kibble when mom is always handing out something different and often tastier?

On top of that, all the variety and extra calories may have been irritating his gut. The pattern—gas, straining a bit at the end, and a soft smear of stool—is exactly what you might see with a mildly upset colon or early, diet-related colitis.

The New Plan: Simple, Consistent, and Kind to His Gut

So, here’s the new game plan for Stanley:

– No more free-choice food.
– Two structured meals a day of Hill’s Science Diet Sensitive Stomach formula, and that’s it for his main diet.
– Careful attention to quantities; for an 11 lb dog, about 3/4 cup of food per day is plenty, adjusted as needed for his body condition.
– Treats only for training, and every treat gets cut into much smaller pieces.

Stanley doesn’t really get table food, so at least I don’t have to undo that habit. But I do have to face the reality that feeding handfuls of even “healthy” treats throughout the day just isn’t fair to his digestive system.

Right now, I suspect he has a mild case of colitis—nothing dramatic, but enough to cause gas and that inconsistent poop—from too much food, too much variety, too many treats, and inconsistent feeding patterns. The good news is that I think I’ve caught it early enough that with better structure and consistency, we can get him back on track without medical intervention.

How I’m Managing Training Treats Going Forward

Cutting back on treats doesn’t mean cutting back on training. It just means getting smarter about how I use them.

Here’s what I’m changing:
– Tiny treat sizes: Every treat is now chopped into very small pieces. One “normal” treat can easily become five or more rewards.
– Treats count toward his daily food: No more pretending they don’t exist. If he gets more treats in a day, his meal portions go down a bit to keep his total intake reasonable.
– More focus on consistency: I’m limiting the number of different treat types and sticking mostly to a couple of simple options rather than a constant rotation.

The goal is to keep his training fun and motivating without overwhelming his digestive system or teaching him that “real” food is optional.

Moving Forward (And a Little Apology to Stanley)

For now, the plan is simple: smaller quantities, a fixed schedule, and consistent food. Once his stomach has had time to settle and his poop and gas normalize, I’ll reassess. At that point, I might keep him on the Hill’s or very slowly and carefully try introducing another food, but only if there’s a good reason to make a change.

Most importantly, I’m done with chasing the “perfect” food at the expense of his gut. Sometimes “good, consistent, and appropriate for your dog” beats “perfect” on paper.

So, here it is in writing: I’m sorry, Stanley. I truly thought I was doing the right thing, trying to give you the best of everything. Instead, I think I unintentionally turned you into a picky eater and upset your tiny tummy in the process. The good news is that you’ve got a mom who’s always learning—and from here on out, we’re going for calm, consistent, and gentle on your stomach.

The Cat Burrito That Changed Everything 🌯😸 (Or: How I Trimmed Puck’s Nails Solo!)

Happy Valentine’s Day! Stan celebrated the day with a Starbucks Pup Cup! On the way home, with the windows open, I remembered why it has been a long time since he’s had one!

 

Remember how I mentioned Puck has extra claws on each front foot? Well, let me tell you about the battle that nail trimming has been in this house.

For years — and I mean years — it’s been a two-person job. One person restrains Puck, the other attempts to trim. And somehow, no matter how careful we are, we end up needing bandaids. For us, not him. Those extra claws are his secret weapons, and he is NOT a fan of having them touched.

So when I saw this Cat Grooming Wrap on Amazon, I added it to Puck’s Christmas list. Best. Decision. Ever.

 

The Solo Nail Trim Victory 🏆

This morning I trimmed Puck’s nails. All by myself.

Do you understand what a HUGE win this is? Let me say it again: I trimmed all of Puck’s nails — including those evil extra claws he hates having messed with — completely alone.

He purred through most of it.

I know. I’m as shocked as you are.

How It Works (AKA: The Magic Burrito)

The wrap is super soft, but here’s the magic: it sticks to itself using some kind of gentle grip material. No velcro, no buckles, nothing harsh. You literally wrap your cat up like a little burrito, and they feel secure.

Here’s what I did:

  • Wrapped Puck up snugly (think baby swaddle, but cat-sized)
  • Pulled out one paw at a time as I needed it
  • Trimmed the nails on that paw
  • Tucked the paw back in and moved to the next one

Did Puck love every second? No. He hissed a couple of times when I got to those extra claws — he’s made it clear throughout his life that those are off-limits in his opinion. But he stayed calm, he purred for most of the process, and most importantly: nobody bled.

That’s a win in my book.

Why I Wish I’d Bought This Years Ago

I’ve spent literal years thinking nail trims just HAD to be a wrestling match. I thought that’s just how it was with difficult cats. Turns out, sometimes the answer is simpler than you think.

The wrap makes Puck feel secure rather than restrained. There’s a difference. It’s soft enough that he’s comfortable, but snug enough that he can’t flail around or scratch me to pieces while I’m trying to work.

For anyone else dealing with a cat who acts like nail trimming is the end of the world — or in Puck’s case, a cat with bonus murder mittens — I cannot recommend this enough. It’s under $10. It’s washable. It takes up almost no space.

I now consider this a cat essential. Right up there with food bowls and litter boxes.

The Bottom Line

If you have a cat that’s difficult to handle for grooming — whether it’s nails, brushing, or even giving medication — this wrap is worth every penny. It’s gentle but effective, and it might just save you from needing a second person (and a first aid kit).

You can find it here on Amazon. They have different sizes, so check which one fits your cat’s weight.

Opinion: Sometimes the best pet products are the simple ones. Not every solution needs to be high-tech or expensive. Sometimes you just need a well-designed burrito wrap and a little patience.

Martin Finally Discovered the Catlink Open-X (And the Couch is Safe!) 🎉

 

Mr. Bean

Remember when I mentioned my son set up that new Catlink Open-X litter box a few weeks ago? The one I won from Catlink? Well, let me tell you about the stubbornness of cats and the sweet victory of patience.

For the first couple of weeks, Martin completely ignored it. I mean, totally pretended it didn’t exist. This beautiful open-top automatic litter box just sat there, looking all fancy and unused, while Martin continued his… let’s call them “questionable” bathroom choices.

But here’s the interesting part: after weeks of ignoring his new option, Martin finally decided to give it a try. And now? He’s claimed it as his box. The open-top design is apparently more his style.

Stanley – Dreaming By the Fire

Meanwhile, his sister Martha is perfectly happy with the old closed automatic box. So now my son has two automatic boxes and two cats who’ve worked out their own little territory arrangement. Honestly? I’m not mad about it.

The best news? Since Martin started using the Catlink Open-X, he’s stopped peeing on the couch. Do you hear that? That’s the sound of one very relieved household. No more enzyme cleaner. No more surprise laundry days. Just a cat using an actual litter box like he’s supposed to.

Now, it’s not perfect. The Open-X doesn’t always clean as thoroughly as we’d like — sometimes it leaves a little behind. But my son discovered you can adjust it to the “soft stool” setting, and that seems to be helping quite a bit. A little tweaking here and there is totally worth it for a pee-free couch.

Bean and Stanley – Becoming Buds!

In Other Pet News…

Puck is doing really well after his dental! He’s adjusting to having his teeth brushed a couple of times a week — which is definitely a learning curve for both of us. I’m working on a full dental care routine for all the pets, and I’ll post more details about that soon.

Stanley just started a new agility class and is learning weave poles! Watching him figure them out has been so fun. More on his progress coming soon.

Also, I’ve been using AI to help me with Stanley’s VERY picky eating, and the new system is working! More about that soon as well.

Opinion: Sometimes you just have to let cats be cats. And sometimes that means having two litter boxes even if you thought one fancy automatic one would do the job. Martin taught us patience, and in return, the couch is safe. I’ll call that a win.

The Day AI Solved Stanley’s Picky Eating Problem 🐶 – I Hope!



I knew AI had quietly become useful in my daily life — but I didn’t expect it to help me crack Stanley’s food drama.

Since we got him at the end of March, I’ve tried everything. All the fancy fresh foods:

If it was fresh, expensive, and highly recommended, I probably ordered it.

Eventually, I landed on Happy Howl, a shelf-stable wet food with better ingredients than typical canned food. Stanley ate it happily for a couple of months. Feeling confident, I bought a full case.

 

And within days of that case arriving, Stanley decided he was done.

We paused. We retried. Nothing. I’ll likely donate the rest to a local shelter.

Out of desperation, I grabbed Fresh Pet at the grocery store. Stanley loved it — but the quality isn’t great, and after a couple of weeks he was shockingly gassy. Not ideal.

At the same time, I was free-feeding Science Diet Small & Mini Sensitive Stomach and Science Diet Oral Care, thinking that if he didn’t want the fancy stuff, he could eat dry food.


Enter AI (and a Reality Check)

Frustrated, I laid the whole situation out for ChatGPT. Its advice was simple and honestly relieving:

Stop trying so hard.

No more juggling fresh foods. No more expensive, high-maintenance meals. Switch to a high-quality dry food and stick with it.

The recommendation was Farmina N&D Ancestral Grain Chicken & Pomegranate. I had never heard of this brand, but I’ll research. 

I was skeptical — it’s “just kibble” — but the nutrition checked out. So I ordered it.

It arrived yesterday. I gave Stanley a few pieces.

He inhaled them.

This morning, I offered a small mix of what he’d been eating (including a little Fresh Pet) plus the new food. Stanley ate all of the Fresh Pet and all of the N&D.

🎉 Woot.

The New Plan

  • No more free-feeding

  • Two meals a day

  • Slow transition off everything else

  • Eventually: just the N&D

This is what you get, buddy. Like it or not.

Opinion: Sometimes picky eating isn’t about the food — it’s about too many options. Simpler really can be better.

Where I’m Buying Food Now

I’ve always ordered pet food from Amazon using Subscribe & Save — easy and automatic. But I couldn’t find this specific food there, so I ordered from Chewy.

After doing a quick comparison, Chewy turned out to be cheaper for some pet items, but not all. I’ll keep buying cat food from Amazon, but I’ve moved Stanley’s new food — and a few other items — to Chewy.

I’ve also been using ChatGPT to help build a dental care plan for the cats (especially Puck post-dental) and for Stanley. More on that soon.

If you’ve lived with a picky eater, I’d love to hear what finally worked for you.

Pet Updates: Progress, Experiments, and Winter Energy

Woke up to this this morning!


It’s been a stretch of small updates, experiments, and learning curves — the kind of weeks that don’t feel dramatic, but definitely add up.


Stanley: Chews, Snow, and Big Feelings 🐶
I’m still on the hunt for safe, long-lasting chews for Stanley. The coffee wood “bone” is… fine. He likes it, but it does create small fragments, so it’s strictly a supervised-only chew. The pig ear was a bigger success — it didn’t last forever, but it lasted a few days, which feels like a win. I’ve heard good things about olive wood, so that may be next.

No idea what happened to this bone – disappeared very quickly!


Stanley is also not a fan of snow, but he’s learning to sprint outside, do his business, and come right back in. He will still choose to poop in his crate if he gets the chance, but the good news is that he’s not having accidents in the house.

Rubber mat in the snow has definitely been helpful


I do still have a BarkPotty set up in the garage. At the moment, Stanley’s approach is to sniff it carefully… then sit on it. He clearly doesn’t understand the potty part yet, but we’ll see if that changes with time.


Missing agility last week because of the snow left him a bit stir-crazy, so I’m exploring options like small dog playdates with the right dog and owner. It might be a little unconventional, but it could be great if I find the right match.


Puck: A Dental and a Whole New Cat 🐱
Puck had his dental and did great — though he ended up needing five teeth removed. The anesthesia hit him hard the first night, but by the next day he was back to normal… maybe even better than before.  He’s been purring, snuggling, and clearly more comfortable, which makes me think those teeth may have been bothering him for quite a while. I’m just grateful he’s feeling good now.

Not the best at self cleaning…


Catlink Update: Two Boxes, Two Happy Cats 🐱
The open-top Catlink litter box experiment continues at my son’s house. It took a couple of weeks, but his cats are finally using it consistently.
Interestingly, one cat prefers the closed automatic box, while the other uses the open-top version, so he now has two automatic boxes and two happy cats. The open box isn’t self-cleaning as well as hoped yet, so he’s experimenting with different litters and adjusting the cleaning delay to give clumps more time to dry. If anyone has any ideas to help the cleaning process, let me know.


Hector & The Dragon: Very On Brand 🦜🦎
Hector is thriving — happily destroying boxes and whistling away. I showed her the snow from the warmth of inside, and she was completely unimpressed. I’ve also started toweling her for snuggles, and I think she actually enjoys it. Getting her more comfortable with handling feels like a good goal.


The dragon is doing well too and has been in and out of brumation, which is unusual for some dragons but very typical for her. She’ll disappear for a few days, then reappear, and repeat that cycle all winter.

Sitters, Boarding, and Trust 🏡

I’m also on the hunt for a new house/pet sitter — someone to check on the cats, Hector, and the dragon when we travel. I really like the woman I’ve used before, but she’s expensive, and I’m wondering if there’s someone else I’d feel just as good about at a lower cost. I reached out to a couple of recommendations today, and one of them may also offer in-home dog boarding, which I’m exploring as another option.


None of this feels dramatic — just steady care, adjustments, and paying attention. That’s kind of how most good pet care looks.


I’d love to hear from you:

What are you doing to keep your pets active?
Have you found a safe, long-lasting dog chew you trust?
How do you find a kennel or pet sitter you truly feel good about?
Share your tips in the comments — I’m always learning.

A Week of Pet Updates (and a Big Snow on the Way) ❄️🐾


It’s been one of those weeks where everything feels fine… but also slightly chaotic.


Stanley: Insurance Wins, Bones, and Snow Prep 🐶
I just heard that Stanley’s emergency vet claim was approved, and the amount will go toward my deductible. 


I’m also still on the eternal quest to find chews that:

      Aren’t rawhide
      Last longer than five seconds


Today’s haul included two new bones and a pig ear. He’s currently very into the pig ear, and it actually seems like it might last a bit — fingers crossed. I also picked up a coffee wood chew, which is totally new to me. We’ll see what he thinks later.


With a 1–2 foot snowstorm expected this weekend, I figured it was smart to stock up now. I’m already worried about Stanley refusing to potty outside, so I’ll likely be shoveling paths just for him. I do have a Bark Potty set up in the garage, which he hasn’t shown much interest in yet… but it may come in handy if things get rough.


Puck: Dental Time 🐱
Earlier this week, Puck let us know something was wrong in a very Puck-like way — rubbing his face on us repeatedly until we noticed his breath smelled terrible. That led to a vet visit, where we learned he needs a dental cleaning and likely a couple of teeth pulled.

The good news: his bloodwork came back perfect, so he’s cleared for his dental on Tuesday.

I asked about pain meds while we wait and learned that cats can only be on pain medication for about three days at a time, apparently due to how their livers process it. Since he’s eating well — even dry food — we’re holding off and will manage pain after the dental instead.

Also: the cost of cat dentals these days? Yikes. I’ll be brushing his teeth going forward and doing everything I can to stretch the time between future dentals.

Hector & The Dragon 🦜🦎
Hector is doing great and was thrilled that I found in-the-shell pistachios for her at the store today. Small joys, big excitement.


The dragon is also doing well and has been in and out of brumation, which is a little unusual — but very on brand for her. She tends to hide for a few days, then reappear for a bit, and repeat that cycle all winter.

So that’s where we are: approved insurance claims, upcoming dentals, new chews, sleepy reptiles, and a whole lot of snow prep.


If nothing else, this weekend will involve shovels, pig ears, and a very small dog negotiating with winter. Let me know what your favorite dog chews are in the comments.

A Scary Saturday Night (and a Very Good Outcome)


Saturday night was not how I planned to spend the weekend.


Earlier that morning, I gave Stanley his Sentinel heartworm pill — one that had originally been prescribed for our old dog, Cali. I had checked with our vet ahead of time and was told there was no reason to throw the medication away as long as it wasn’t expired and Stanley had reached the appropriate weight range. I believed he had.


At first, everything seemed fine. But by dinnertime, Stanley wouldn’t eat and was unusually quiet. A couple of hours later, when we got home after being out, it was clear something was very wrong.


He barely got up to greet us. I carried him upstairs and noticed he was wobbly, shaky, and clearly off balance. He was holding his ears strangely, staring at the couch but unable or unwilling to jump up. He wandered aimlessly, almost like he was drunk or disoriented, and still refused food.


My son and I did some quick research, and everything pointed to the same answer: vet immediately. Thankfully, I had just gotten pet insurance — and off to the emergency vet we went.


The ER Visit


Stanley was taken back right away. After an exam, we waited for about an hour while he sat wrapped in a blanket on my lap, unusually calm and quiet — too out of it to even be nervous.

Waiting for the Vet


When the vet came in, she told us his vitals were all normal. She asked detailed questions about what he might have gotten into, and the only unusual thing we could identify was the heartworm pill.

Waiting Patiently


She walked us through our options:

Hospitalize him overnight with monitoring and bloodwork, or assume a medication reaction and treat him with subcutaneous fluids and an anti-nausea medication, then send him home if I was comfortable monitoring him.


Given that his vitals were stable and I could be with him all night, we chose treatment and brought him home. I didn’t want to leave him.


The Aftermath


Stanley slept curled up against me all night. I barely slept — waking up often to check on him — but he rested peacefully. The next morning, he was still quiet, but he did eat breakfast.


By Sunday night, he was acting like himself again: playful, alert, and eating normally.


I checked in with our regular vet and also contacted the heartworm medication manufacturer to report what happened. What makes this especially confusing is that the medication he reacted to did not contain the additional dewormer — that ingredient is actually in the medication he’s taken before without any issues. At this point, I’ve thrown out the remaining pills and won’t be using them again while we figure out the best path forward.


For now, I’m keeping a close eye on him and plan to take him to agility class tonight — with zero pressure. If he’s not feeling it, we’ll leave. Simple as that.

Stanley does seem to be a sensitive little guy; he’s had a moderate vaccine reaction in the past as well. I’m hopeful this was a one-time issue and that we were simply lucky. Planning to work with my vet to make sure we find a safe path forward.

Grateful for Pet Insurance

I’m really thankful for pet insurance in moments like this. I have a free plan through Nibbles, which I got when I signed up for their credit card, and it made the decision to go to the emergency vet feel a little less stressful.

Of course I would have taken Stanley no matter what, but removing the immediate financial pressure helped. I used the card to pay for the visit, and the next morning I received an email asking if I wanted to submit a claim — they automatically recognized the charge as a vet hospital. All I have to do is reply with the reason for the visit and they handle the rest.

I opted to include office visits in my coverage, so the cost should be covered or applied toward my deductible. I’m also reaching out to the heartworm medication manufacturer, since they sometimes reimburse expenses related to drug reactions.

Opinion: I’ve never used pet insurance before, but after seeing a friend go through spending a huge amount of money for leg surgery for her dog, I thought I would try it with Stanley. Pet insurance doesn’t change your decision to seek care — it just makes an already stressful situation easier to manage.


In Other (Much Lighter) News…


My son set up the new open-top litter box yesterday — the one I won from Catlink. It’s the Scooper Open-X. It looks like a great design! He wanted to try it first since he’s had ongoing litter box issues with Martin. I really like the look of it and I’m hopeful the open design will be appealing to Martin.

Photo by Lucas Hamilton


He said setup was very easy, and while it’s larger than a standard litter box, it doesn’t take up an unreasonable amount of space compared to other automatic options. I’ll share more once we see how Martin feels about it.


Sometimes pet ownership is routines and progress… and sometimes it’s terrifying curveballs. I’m incredibly grateful that Stanley seems to be okay — and that we listened to our instincts when something felt wrong. Have you had a scary moment with your pet? Share in the comments….

 

New Year, Same Pets (With Big Plans) 🎉🐾


I hope Santa was good to all the pets!

As we roll into 2026, I’ve been thinking about what the new year might look like for our pets — not in a “new year, new you” way, but more of a small tweaks, steady progress kind of way.


Stanley’s 2026 Goals 🐶
Stanley has a busy year ahead. The plan includes: More classes, starting with agility next week,  Ongoing general manners and obedience work,  More nose work, which he truly loves
And maybe — eventually — working toward his Canine Good Citizen.


While I do consider him housebroken at this point, there’s still one thing I’d really like to solve: the occasional pooping in his crate. Switching from blankets to crate pads (on a trainer’s advice) has helped, but we’re not all the way there yet.


I’m also toying with the idea of giving him an indoor potty option. I know how much he absolutely hates the cold, and winter isn’t doing either of us any favors. TBD.


Cats: A New Litter Box Experiment 🐱
The cats are doing well overall. My son is currently testing out a new open-top automatic litter box I won from Catlink — and I’m very curious to see how this goes.


The real question: will Martin (our occasional couch offender) prefer the open-top setup and have fewer “accidents”? Fingers crossed. If he approves, it could be a game changer.

Hector D. Byrd: Still Unwrapping 🎁🦜
Hector D. Byrd is doing just fine. She’s still slowly opening one of her Christmas presents — very on brand for her. New things take time, and she likes to move at her own pace. Honestly, same.

Present in the background… Waiting.


That’s where we’re starting 2026: plans in place, expectations realistic, and everyone mostly doing okay.


I’d love to know —
Do you set goals or plans for your pets in the new year, or do you just let things unfold?

Here’s to another year of learning, adjusting, and doing the best we can for the animals who run our lives. 🐾✨