Stanley’s Progress, Playtime, and the Elusive “Down” Command


🐾 Stanley Update: Loving Life and Learning Slowly
Stanley is doing great — he’s such a little love! His perfect day includes running wild playing fetch, and then curling up in someone’s lap like the world’s tiniest weighted blanket. He spent a few hours with my daughter and her partner last night while I was out, and he loved it. After zooming around their living room, he curled up on the couch like he owned the place.

Outside “Potty Pen”


🚪 Potty Progress: Outside Only!
Potty training is still a work in progress, but we’re moving in the right direction. I’ve officially taken away his indoor potty pads — it’s outdoor-only from here on out. He’s starting to understand what he’s supposed to do outside, but… he gets distracted. Easily.

Sometimes it’s a two-round process:

Take him out, let him sniff and explore.
Bring him back in.
Wait for him to start sniffing inside.
Back out we go.
It’s time-consuming, but I think it’s finally starting to click.

Post Playgroup – Exhausted Stanley!


🐶 Playgroup and Puppy Energy
Stanley loves his weekly dog playgroup. I do wish there was another puppy in the mix — the other dogs are lovely, but none of them match his endless energy. He’ll play with one until they get tired, then bounce over to the next. It’s actually been great for him socially — he’s learning to read dog body language and back off when someone’s had enough. Big win!

🎓 Training Class Challenges
Training class has been… okay. It’s focused a lot on helping excitable adolescent dogs calm down, which is useful, but I was hoping for more basics like sit, stay, etc.

The biggest challenge? Lay down. Stanley doesn’t do it. At all. I’ve tried luring with treats, but he’s so tiny that he just stretches his neck instead of lowering his body. I’ve also tried waiting and rewarding the behavior when he does it naturally — but the only time he really lays down is in someone’s lap or locked in his crate.


I’m going to email the trainer and see if she has other ideas. It’s tough to teach “relax on your mat” when he doesn’t actually lay down on the floor. If you have tips, please send them my way!

That said, he’s doing great with:

Coming when called
Sit
Touch
Leave it
“OK” release cue
And he’s becoming an excellent walker — he walked over a mile each way to and from our favorite local restaurant last weekend!

🏃‍♂️ Agility on the Horizon?
I’m thinking about signing him up for a beginner agility class. With how much he loves running, jumping, and weaving through furniture, I think he’d have a blast. Plus, I suspect it would help him burn off some of that teenage dog energy in a positive way.

🐉 The Rest of the Crew
While Stanley may be hogging the spotlight, the rest of the pets are doing well:

Beauty Bath


The Dragon (our bearded dragon) just had a beautiful full-body shed and a nice bath. Her tail is the only bit left to finish up.


Hector the Parrot is thriving in her usual way — shredding every bit of cardboard she can find.

Martin on top, Puck under him, and Martha on the Side


Our two cats are adjusting to being blocked from the finished basement for the summer (our allergy-friendly zone for my daughter’s fiancé). They’re coping just fine, though they do linger dramatically outside the basement door.
Our son’s cats are still visiting frequently. We thought his male cat was the one peeing on the couch, but surprise! He just caught the female in the act. She’s headed to the vet Monday — fingers crossed it’s something treatable and we can put the mystery peeing to rest once and for all.

Puck


🐕 Back to Class Tomorrow!
We’re back at training class in the morning — wish us luck! And seriously, if anyone out there has advice on how to teach a tiny dog to lay down, I’m all ears. Drop your tips in the comments!

Puppy Love & Puppy Frustration: Life with Teenage Stanley

 


💛 Sweet, Cuddly, and… Exhausting
I love Stanley — he’s affectionate, playful, and loves to snuggle. But wow, some days are just a lot.

Lately, I’ve been finding myself frustrated by the end of the day. He’s deep in that “teenage puppy” phase, and even though I know it’s normal, it can feel like we’re going backward instead of making progress.

🚪 The Potty Training Struggle
The housebreaking journey has been… slow. I keep working on getting him to go outside, but we’re not quite there yet.

Today was a good example:

He went outside twice — long walks, lots of time in the woods.
Nothing.
Five minutes after coming inside? He goes on his puppy pad.
I’m super grateful he used the pad (thankfully he’s good about that), but I just can’t figure out what’s holding him back from going outside. I’m trying to stay patient, but it’s tough.


⏳ Chugging Along
Some days I feel like I’m failing him — like I’m not training him well enough, or not doing something right. But I keep trying. He did go outside twice today, and we had some nice walks. So I’m holding onto the little wins and reminding myself that this takes time.

I’m also nervous about traveling this summer and leaving him with someone else. I want him to be a bit more predictable and easier to care for by then. Hopefully, we’ll make some real progress soon.


🥣 Food Update: A Clear Favorite
On the upside, I’ve finally found a dog food that really works for both Stanley and me: Top Shelf Dog. He’s eating it consistently, it’s easy to serve, and it turns out to be the most cost-effective option I’ve tried.

Bonus: ordering it from Amazon is actually cheaper than buying directly from their website.

I also couldn’t resist a deal from Ollie — half off the first shipment and a free dog DNA test? Yes, please. That’s on the way, and I’ll report back once we try it.


🐕 First Small Dog Playgroup
This afternoon, Stanley has his first small dog playgroup! I’m hopeful he’ll do well — fingers crossed he makes some new friends and gets a little more confident around other dogs.

🐾 TL;DR: Puppies are hard. Stanley is adorable. I’m tired. But we’re figuring things out.


Any other puppy parents out there dealing with the same rollercoaster? Share your training wins (or fails!) and drop any playgroup or travel tips in the comments.